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Life’s “Wire Winder”…

Wednesday Wisdom 🙂


Inspiration this week comes from Proverbs 19: 2

“Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes.”


Halloween morning brought cold temperatures to our farm. When I headed into town to go to Physical Therapy for my leg, the car thermometer read 5 degrees. We’ve had a beautiful fall in Nebraska, but winter looms and the growing season has come to an end.

I graze my two horses on “left over alfalfa hay” behind my house during the winter months. If I was smart, I would have built fence with my favorite farmer before the weather turned cold but busy schedules put off the chore until we finally took time to do it Friday afternoon.


We use wire and a blend of fiberglass and small metal fence posts to build the one-wire winter fence. I use an electric fencer to make the fence “hot” to ensure that the horses respect it while they are out grazing during the day. I bring them back into the corral by the house each night.

Matt pulls the wire winder behind the pickup as we role out the wire for the new fence. As he does this, it’s my job to keep some tension on the wire so that the winder will feed it out correctly. The faster Matt drives, the faster the wire feeds out as the winder turns. Since we only do this chore 1X per year, it usually takes us a few minutes to get our rhythm down. Often, we go too fast as we start out and the wire catches and breaks instead of feeding correctly. It’s a lesson in patience, focus and teamwork.

As I was guiding the wire and watching the winder go around and feed it out, it occurred to me that life is a bit like the wire winder. At times, enthusiasm pushes us to go too fast. As a result, life’s wire winder spins around faster and faster until we panic with a loss of control and often something “breaks”. The fix for this is really quit simple – SLOW DOWN – but sometimes the pressures of the world make it difficult despite its simplicity.


The book of Proverbs has a gift of stating simple wisdom.

“Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes.” 

Patience can be elusive, especially during those times that earthly circumstances pull us in all different directions. Worth gets inappropriately caught up in the number of things that you get done thereby fueling a quickening life spin that causes mistakes to overtake knowledge. There is no joy to be found in that rat race. It leaves you tired, shaken, and frustrated when the wire breaks. I can personally attest to this!

They make wire splices that enable you to put the two pieces of broken wire back together. My favorite farmer and I use them when we get going too fast and the wire catches and breaks as we build fence. God made a “wire splicer” too — His name is Jesus. He puts us back together when we make mistakes and fall apart. Unlike the jar of wire splicers that are in our fencing bucket, Jesus’ jar of love never runs out. His is steadfast. Hebrews 13:8 assures us that “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” He is God’s promise that we will never be abandoned. He is the assurance that God will never fail us, even in those times that we fail Him.

After almost 45 years of being a people pleaser, I’m finally figuring out that it’s okay to say “no” when life’s demands pull my heart apart. I’m still not good at it, but I’m getting better. I’ve built a good habit of praying for God’s discernment and then waiting for His answer before I act. I know that enthusiasm without knowledge leads to a broken wire, just as I know that harmony is found by taking the time to look up to the audience that truly matters. As a result, I am becoming intentional about slowing down to look for God’s path for my life.

Harmony in life happens when we walk with Jesus. “We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall” (Proverbs 16:33). Peace and joy are there for us to find in that walk, but we only grasp them when we slow down the wire winder and focus on what truly matters.

 

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Wish Upon a Prayerful Prairie Star…

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Inspiration this week comes from Psalms 19: 1-4

“The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship. Day after day they continue to speak; night after night they make him known. They speak without a sound or word; their voice is never heard. Yet their message has gone throughout the earth, and their words to all the world.”


I spent the winter and spring reading the Old Testament, and I have really enjoyed pondering the story and journey of King David. I’ve drawn introspection and wisdom from reading about David’s life journey. I see parallels in David that I find in my own life. The most obvious to me is that I make mistakes along the way, but I try to have a devoted and faithful heart that turns to God for guidance.

I think that the book of Psalms (partially written by David) shows the range of human response to God and His world. The verses help to bring the emotion out of my heart, and tell me that its okay to have an up and down relationship with God as long as I am deepening my faith in an intentional journey to know Him better.

I find God best in the quiet. He comes alive to me as I spend peaceful time on the Nebraska prairie.

My favorite blonde cowgirl went flying out the back door the other night to snap the above picture. It’s a little bit hard to see, but the alfalfa field behind my horse paddock is dotted with dandelions. As the sun prepared to set, the dandelions lit up with its rays and seem to beckon “Wish upon a prayerful prairie star”. I remember when my girls were little, they used to pick the dandelions and make a wish before they blew on them. I don’t know exactly what they wished for, but I think of those times as God moments. 

Today, when I search for God’s guidance, it comes to me as a soft and quiet voice. I hear it best amongst the quiet when my mind is uncluttered and my heart is at peace. The more I open my mind to listen, the more I that I hear.

I’ve been asked a couple of times over the last several months what I feel is the best tool that my girls can have in order to live an honorable life. To me that means: What is the best inspiration for having good character as they travel through all of the moments of each day?

My answer is simple and can be summed up in three words.

OWN THEIR FAITH.

When my girls reach out in faithful love to Jesus and open their hearts to him, then they develop a personal relationship with God that drives the way that they live their lives. Their decision making process changes as they intentionally seek guidance from the ultimate source of holy character. They learn to listen for that soft and quiet voice.

It’s a life changer.

You can see it in the story of King David as well as in the lives of anyone who chooses to live in faith. And, I am truly blessed to have watched it happen in all three of my girls.

Last Sunday was Mother’s Day. As I think about the celebration of motherhood, I am eternally grateful for this blessing. As my girls own their faith, they make a daily choice to walk with Jesus and let him guide their hearts. It changes their perspective and it enables them to live with a new level of peace and confidence that is not tied to earthly culture.

If I were to think of what I would most wish upon a prayerful star for, it is just this. And today I am grateful for all of the dandelions (that are not supposed to be in my favorite farmer’s alfalfa field) for reminding me of God’s graceful influence in our family 🙂

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