The Rainbow Ends At the Pot Of Gold…

megfeedyardcollageAfter 14 years living, working, and growing up under the magnificent Nebraska sky I learned a lot from the people who were kind enough to share it with me. Now I want to share it with you. My experiences in our little town are not ones that many people get to have. There are lessons hidden in each memory and each story — lessons that most people in our country may miss or look over. These are my 15 favorite lessons that I have learned growing up on a farm — Megan🙂

  1. Home is where the heart is… When I first went to kindergarten I cried every day because I did not understand why I had to sit in a classroom and count whatever was on my piece of paper instead of counting cattle at the feedyard. I did not want to leave my comfort zone where I loved to be.
  2. Two wrongs don’t make a right… I first learned this when perched on the arm of the chair in the inner cubical of the office, staring blankly at the computer screen full of numbers – never leave a mistake without correcting it. Always fix what went wrong even if it means admitting that you are human and you made a mistake. If you do not correct a mistake, the problem just grows.
  3. For the love of Pete… Whenever our cowboy is agitated but not quite angry enough to start cussing, he starts loving Pete. Usually he says this under his breath, but after a while you can understand the mumbling language. We have never figured out who Pete is but wherever he is, he is much loved.
  4. If you love what you do, you will never work a day in your life… People come to stay with us every once and a while and right before they leave Doug, our beloved foreman, always tells them that he has never worked a day in his life. They get very confused because they have just watched him working hard. He explains to them that he loves the job that he has; consequently, he has never worked a day in his life.
  5. Work smarter, not harder… My mom always says that you should work smarter so therefore your work is easier. Do not get me wrong, hard work is essential to any job, especially those on a farm, but if you work hard and smart then you will be more efficient and do a better job.
  6. Sarcasm… It is not just the words that come out of your mouth; it is a lifestyle. Sarcasm can lighten any day if put in the correct context. Doug is especially good at adding a little to our day, and I have learned from the best. He always told me when I was little that he never called the bunk a C when the cattle did not clean up all of their feed. The bunk was always a D because he skipped C. He told me that was because he could actually spell the words that started with D – I think perhaps it is because his name starts with a “D” but I humor him🙂
  7. Count in your head… When the cattle come off the truck and into the feedyard we always count them to make sure we have the correct number. When my sisters and I were little, this was one of our first jobs. We would climb up so that we were tall enough to see into the unloading chute and then “count” the cattle that came off the truck. My mom had to start counting using her hands because we would say the wrong numbers aloud. To this day she still counts cattle with her fingers. Doug used to try to teach us to count ears instead of tails. Or sometimes he tried to have us count feet…
  8. Leave it how you found it… When cooperating with members of a “team” you should always: leave things how you found them, replace tools to their proper “home”, and, when in doubt, shut the gate. When working with farmers, mechanics, or welders always put their tools back where they belong. They get very angry very quickly if they cannot find the tool they are looking for. Always shut the gate behind you. A feedyard manager’s worst nightmare is leaving a gate open. My mom has nightmares about accidentally letting loose a pen of cattle on the county road.
  9. Think like a calf… It is important for any cattle handler to step into the calf’s hooves. Looking through a calf’s eyes can be tricky. In order to do that you have to have empathy and think like a prey animal. I learned this when I was little so it comes like second nature to me but some people struggle changing their perspective.
  10. Give it to God… Some things you cannot control. Mother Nature likes to throw everything she can at us farmers. We cannot hope to control it; we can only try to manage what comes our way. Rain is a good thing for dad but not for mom. When it rains no one in our house sleeps very well. Snow is even worse. Before I was actually put to work, I thought snow was the best part of winter. I was wrong, snow means work.
  11. Gnats are extra protein… In the summers there are a lot of bugs. There are an especially large number of them this year because we had a wet spring. When you walk through the feedyard you cannot help but get a gnat somewhere you really probably did not want a gnat to be. That is not at a total loss because gnats are extra protein (not that a beef farmer needs that)…
  12. Cowgirls don’t cry… When you are working with animals, they depend on you. They need fed on Easter and Christmas and Sundays. This does not give you time to sit down and feel sorry for yourself. If you fall, you get back up again because there is always more work to be done. When your finger gets caught in a gate you do not have time to watch it turn purple and swell, there are still cattle that need tending to.
  13. Help will always come to those who ask for it… No one can give you a helping hand if they do not know you need it. It is not a bad thing to request help. Needing help does not make you weak or incompetent.
  14. Build character… There are many ways on a farm to build character. Scooping bunks is one of the most common ways. Another good one is throwing small square hay bales. I can also tell you that touching the hot electric fence does not build as much character as you would think…
  15. A little dirt never hurt anyone… Sometimes it is okay to get a little dirt on your hands. The work that results in that dirt is worth something to someone.ResizedImage951374766405614

The pot of gold in Nebraska that sits under all the morning rainbows is the hay carefully stacked by loving hands that feeds the animals which give us food.

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19 responses to “The Rainbow Ends At the Pot Of Gold…

  1. Ann Smith

    Thank you Megan!

  2. theranchwifechronicles

    Megan and Anne,

    • theranchwifechronicles

      Well I will try again…. Megan well said, I love this post! Sometimes My Husband and I look at each other and wonder why we keep doing this ranching thing. Then we blink and one of us says it’s hard work, but work and a lifestyle we enjoy. Nothing is better than moving cattle on an early morning or watching the calves grow up.

      Anne, you and Matt are doing a great job with your three girls! Keep up the good work and enjoy the people they are blooming into.

      • Thank you, Robyn! It was fun for me to stand back and see things from Megan’s perspective. Her younger sister, Karyn, stepped in to help brain storm. I loved watching them “at work” trying to put memories and lessons into words 😊

        I hope that you all are having a great summer!
        Anne

  3. Dawn

    Great job Megan! Spot on about the “hot” fence.

    • I laughed at that one too, Dawn. It was Matt’s favorite! I am going to have to go with “the love of Pete” as my favorite mostly because I work with him so closely 😉

      Great to hear from you!
      Anne

  4. Wally McCall

    Great job, Megan. I loved it!!! Uncle Wally

    Sent from my iPhone

  5. SF Ferguson

    Very good insight, Megan! Hope to hear more from you in the future!

    • Thank you, Sue Fan! I try to encourage them all to write. Sometimes it is hard to fit it into their schedules 😊

      This was a fun one and brought our family many laughs! Good to hear from you.

      Love,
      Anne

  6. William Wiebking

    And you finish with a great thought, “The work that results in that dirt is worth something to someone.”

    • Yes — that was a good thought to end with. I’m pretty proud of Meg. She is an intuitive kid with a lot of maturity and perseverance 😊

      Hope that you all are having a fun summer.
      Anne

  7. Jeff

    A smart one she is!

  8. Jim and Carol Ingram

    Megan, are you sure you’re 14, not 40! There are an awful lot of adults of all ages who haven’t learned the lessons you just itemized. Anne and Matt, you’ve done a really excellent job of raising your girls with values that will carry them through whatever life has in store for them.
    Carol

    • Thank you, Carol! I have consistently maintained over the years that my girls are the best thing that I have done with my life. Matt and I really try to include the girls in the farm which I think helps them learn those important lessons. Karyn helped Megan with ideas for this post which was really fun to watch.

      We hope that you all are doing well!
      Anne

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